Being a good parent is surely better than trying to be a perfect one.

The inspiration for this post comes from this article - Top 5 Ways To Stop Being a Perfectionist

Set Realistic Expectations

For me, realistic expectation in a day includes keeping Erin clean, safe, fed and clothed. I try to provide at least one activity a day which can be a simple excursion to run an errand, a trip to the park/soft play/friend’s house, or an indoor activity like painting or getting a special toy out. Most days I provide home cooked food but on occasion the food may come from a tin. I try to limit ’screen’ time, but sometimes I do resort to a dvd if it’s particularly hectic. She always has clean clothes, if we are indoors, sometimes they aren’t ironed. We have a bath most nights, unless we are running very late.

I think these ’standards’ are just fine. The odd dvd, tin of baked beans and sausages, missed bath time, un-ironed joggers is surely better than a mother who is completely frazzled and constantly snapping?

Give Yourself Credit for What You Have Accomplished

They are still alive. You must be doing something right.

Their sole survival depends on us, if they are thriving then we are doing a good job. Everything they know we have taught them, when you think about it that’s pretty amazing!

Accept That Mistakes are Part of The Journey

We aren’t always going to get it right. Accept when you get it wrong and move on.

If You’re Stuck Seek Help

Doctors, health visitors, magazines, internet, family - I have consulted all at one time or another.

Focus On The Present

This is my favourite tip of all. Life is fast, too fast, take some time out to enjoy the moment tomorrow. You aren’t going too look back in twenty years and wish you didn’t spend more time with your kids.

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