Have I Been Violated?
I received a massage voucher for my christmas for a nice health and beauty place in Edinburgh.
I’ve had one massage before this one. It was nice.
The room was dimly lit and the girl seemed pleasant enough, I chose some oils then undressed and got onto the bed as instructed. The girl returned and put some aromatherapy oil on my top lip (to help me relax) and then got to work. Firstly on my front around my neck and shoulders, very good.
The girl told me to turn over whilst shielding my modesty with the towel. She tucked the towel into my knickers and pulled them down what seemed like a couple of inches too far. I nervously clenched and she started pummelling my buttocks, I tried to relax but when someone is massaging your bum it’s not easy. She massaged my whole back but kept returning to the bum area, each time I clenched up and then tried to relax, I was worried that the more ‘tension’ she felt the more she would massage!
At the end she clinked the maracca thing and asked me if I’d been able to fully relax. I nodded profusely and thanked her, trying to hide my embarrassment.
So in a Joey from Friends like fashion (remember ‘cupping-gate’) I’m asking you, is it normal for a massage to include bottom rubbing? Or have I been violated?
Photo of bum not mine (unfortunately)


I've been blogging for four years and write about anything and everything that takes my fancy.
Above is me with my beloved Ernie in Port Aventura and left with our love child in Florida.


