Confessions of a Gambler
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Hello my name is Erica and I like to gamble.
Some of you reading will hate everything to do with gambling but for me it’s my way to relax. I rarely drink, I gave up smoking well before I had my daughter so a game of poker, a flutter on the horses, a spin of the wheel (or reels) is my way to unwind.
I think gambling is like most other vices, if it’s kept under control then it’s a great pastime. The problems arise when addictive personalities and the need for money drives the gambling. I have my own rules whether I’m playing at an online casino or whether I’m at my local casino (yes, I’m a member and a semi-regular).
My rules are;
I never gamble when I’m in a bad mood.
I never gamble to win money.
I count my gambling money as money spent on entertainment. Money won is a bonus.
I never deposit or take more money than I can comfortably afford to lose.
I never set monetary limits on when I’ll walk away ie. “I’ll leave when I’ve won ?200″. I set time limits and I’ll leave at a certain time regardless of my financial position. This ensures that it doesn’t become about winning money but remains about the pleasure of playing.
My Gambling History
I started gambling about twenty years ago when I was 8. My grandad had this red nescafe coffee tin full to the brim of coppers. Every so often he’d pull the tin from his cupboard and a deck of cards from the drawer and we’d play ‘pontoon’, otherwise known as ’21′ or ‘blackjack’. In the beginning we’d both gamble with his money. As I got older and we progressed to ’3 card brag’ (3 card poker) I’d gamble with my own pocket money, a good lesson in managing your wins and losses!
It wasn’t just about gambling though. We’d play card games for fun and by the time I was 11 I was able to play a range of games like rummy, beanie, cribbage or ‘crib’ as my nan called it.
In my teens I liked the slot machines and for a while I lived across from a travelling fair where there was an arcade with tuppenny slots. At that time I had a part-time cleaning job and I’d often sneak out to the fair with my ?5 wage.
When I was old enough and we had the internet I signed up for online casinos and got into playing texas hold ‘em and internet roulette. The summer before I got married was a particularly lucrative one and let’s just say our wedding fund was helped along significantly
After I had Erin I went through my ‘poker phase’, I went through a stage of playing poker every day albeit for small stakes. I’ve had some wins and losses, my biggest win was over the new year of 2009 when I won enough to buy a new laptop.
Nowadays I don’t have as much time for gambling as I’m studying full time and running a business but I still enjoy the odd game of texas hold ‘em or 3 card poker. I had a Grand National day recently where I gambled on the horses all day and ocassionally I’ll play slots online.
Writing this post has put me right in the mood for a game of poker so I must dash ![]()
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I think a little flutter now and again is fine as long as you can control it. And it can be exciting – even winning the slots in Vegas is a bit of a thrill (and watching the high rollers there is fascinating – $10k min bet on some tables!) But gambling is an addiction and therefore if you have an addictive personality in any way it’s best to be avoided. Particularly if you can’t really afford to lose. And obviously I never, ever bet on the National.