National Citizens Service: A Good Idea?

By Little Mummy, October 12, 2007 2:07 am

I had the rare opportunity last week to catch up with current affairs. I ended up watching about half of David Cameron’s annual speech to the Conservative Party. There were a few interesting points, along with quite a bit of fluff, one of which was the idea of a National Citizens Service. It would be a voluntary affair aimed at young adults between the ages of 16-18, designed to be a transition to adulthood, a ‘coming of age’ if you like.

It’s not a bad idea, well, not completely. It’s clear that Cameron is jumping on popular opinion that ‘proper’ National Service wouldn’t do any harm to the hoards of neds (aka chavs), he’s just doing it in a more namby pamby way. For a start it’s voluntary. Is he expecting the knife weilding, buckie drinking louts to form an orderly queue? I think not. Most likely it will be the ‘middle class’ that will be the uptakers, the public school kids that see this as yet another way to boost their bulging records of achievement. For this to have any impact at all, it needs to be these three things;

COMPULSORY

EXTENDED (6 WEEKS?)


RESIDENTIAL

No ifs, no buts, and no damn medical certificates.

Littlemummy News Roundup: Boot Sale, Winner and Interviewee

By Little Mummy, October 10, 2007 2:07 am

I started my decluttering plan on Sunday by doing a boot sale. It was a strange kind of day. Up at 6am, drove to boot sale site (first time we’ve ever been to this one) where we were versed on the ‘rules’. No setting up until the claxon sounds. Claxon will sound at 8.30am. Exactly. At 8.30am there will not be a steady stream of sunday morning perusers, but a swarm of bargain hunting vultures happy to negotiate the price of gold through the car window. Yes I ‘illegally’ sold some old jewellery via the car window, it was rather exciting in a gangstery sort of way!

To say it was non-stop was an understatement. I don’t think there was one moment when the stall was without customer. The claxon sounded again at 1pm to signal the end of the sale and the moment when packing was allowed to commence. Craziest boot sale I ever went too….

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It was quite a lucrative weekend as I also won a prize in the Problogger Birthday Bash. I won a $25 gift certificate for Amazon, I bought two books – America’s Cheapest Family and The 4 Hour Workweek. Both books have been on my book list for a while, and as they are both specifically American, this was the ideal opportunity for me to get them. I plan on doing some bloggy stuff surrounding these books which may include posts, reviews, and test drives of some of the advice in the books, should be fun, especially test driving some of the frugal tips from America’s Cheapest Family!

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I was interviewed by Melitsa’s Play Activities. You can read the interview here.

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Ingenious Rose has written an interesting post about her thoughts and feelings on her daughter starting school in January.

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The Carnival of British Parents is live at Little Legends. Unfortunately there are only a few submissions and I’d urge all British Parent Bloggers to submit an article for the next edition, as it’s a great community tool that can bring you some new readers.

The Carnival of Family Life is hosted at My Wealth Builder, fantastic interactive edition this week. Enjoy!

Parent Testing a Habit: Accept What You Have

By Little Mummy, October 8, 2007 2:12 am

My habit this week from Zen Habits 52 Tips for Happiness and Productivity was to work on accepting what I have.

This is a good habit for me to form because i’m always focusing on the next goal and miss out on enjoying and celebrating the every day pleasures and successes. I dealt with a lot of house stuff last week so my focus was still firmly on the future and the goal of moving, this week I hope I can focus on spending time with Erin and my husband enjoying what we have and the excitement of moving house.

What are you focusing on this week?

Next Weeks’ Habit/Tip: Envision your Ultimate Life

Butlins Redcoats to Provide Parenting Advice

By Little Mummy, October 5, 2007 5:46 am

I’m not sure I’ve heard anything quite as riduculous for sometime.

Butlins are offering parents midweek breaks where they’ll be able to get advice on avoiding tantrums and sticking to eating/sleeping routines whilst on holiday. The ‘advice’ will be given by specially trained redcoats.

I have more than a few problems with this. For a start, I go on holiday to relax, not to make appointments to discuss my parenting skills with a complete stranger, who doesn’t even know my child.

In my experience redcoats are young, single, and highly unlikely to be parents. They’re either waiting for their ‘big break’ or have aspirations of becoming a club 18-30 rep. They most likely drink too much, smoke too much, and party too hard, that’s the rep/redcoat culture, and good for them, but parenting advice? No. I think I’ll stick with my own parental instincts, or worse case scenario, seek a ‘professional’.

Does anyone find this proposition appealing?

Edinburgh for Under Fives: Deep Sea World

By Little Mummy, October 5, 2007 12:32 am

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Both Alex and I had been to Deep Sea World several times when we were younger, it’s a favourite for school trips. We knew what to expect and we wondered if anything might have changed. Barring the addition of a seal sanctuary, the answer was no.

Deep Sea World comprises several large open fish tanks, tropical aquariums, educational docks with interactive displays and the main attraction, an underwater conveyor belt that takes you well below sea level and surrounds you with shark amongst other fish. Apparently the acrylic used in the tunnel is the same as that used by NASA in space shuttles, and can withstand two African elephants, which is reassuring, the largest shark we saw must have been around 10ft long.

Deep Sea World Ticket

Erin loved it, the fish in the open tanks ended up being at eye level for her so she was able to view freely. She enjoyed the underwater tunnel, but I think her favourite were the seals, she whooped and squealed as they hauled their blubbery bodies out of the water for another herring.

It was a lovely couple of hours but at £10 per adult (Erin was free), I felt it was quite expensive and will need to be an occasional treat.


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Littlemummy News Roundup

By Little Mummy, October 4, 2007 1:28 am

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Here is a picture of me proudly erecting the Sold sticker to my For Sale board. The proposed move in date is 23rd November 2007, so I have already begun sorting out a lot of stuff and plan to do a boot sale on Sunday.

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The Carnival of Family Life (last week, sorry a bit late posting this) is presented at Mom on Wheels. My highlights are;

A thought provoking post by Husbandhood, something you should remember while you’re raising your child.

Why I Want To Retire Early, Change Roles and Live On One Income
talks of the kind of life many of us are striving for.

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Scribbit’s Winter Bazaar is underway with a fabulous ghost cake with flaming eyes, this would be a real treat for Halloween.
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This weeks’ Carnival of Family Life is presented at the real life blog.

Huggies vs Pampers: A ‘Real’ Mum Tests

By Little Mummy, October 3, 2007 5:01 am

If you’ve opted to spoil the planet like many other parents (including myself) then the big question is Huggie or Pampers, which is the best disposable nappy?

Huggies and pampers are the leading disposable nappy brands regularly going head to head in marketing campaigns selling the virtues of their own and generally dissing the opposing camp. Enough is enough, I intend on outing the best nappy once and for all, I’m a real mum, with a real kid and I’ve done a ‘real’ wetness test, read on to find out the results…

Huggies vs Pampers

But first a bit of background, I’m a pampers fan, ever since I worked in a nursery I’ve been solidly for pampers, Erin has always used pampers. I was recently approached by a representative of Huggies and asked to test their pull ups, I agreed, but I warned the rep that I was a big pampers fan and that the review was unlikely to favour Huggies. I wanted to give them a fair go though and decided that some rigorous tesing out to take place, divided into two categories, the fit, and the fluid test.

The Fit

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I like the fit of pampers. They are fitted around the top of the thigh with an elasticated strip which stops leakage. They are high waisted which keeps it fitting when the nappy is ‘heavy’. On the negative side they can become quite bulky when wet.

Huggies

Huggies pull ups have large elasticated bands at the side which look very comfortable. The sides are velcro-like which makes them easy to take on and off. The negative point with huggies is definitely the fit around the leg which isn’t nearly close enough.

The Fluid Test

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You’ve seen this test before, at one point and another both ‘camps’ have produced the astounding result of their own nappy being the dryest. Well now we are going to find out once and for all, and I promise I have been completely unbiased, my husband even acted as adjudicator!

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I used my usual size 5 pampers economy and tested against my free sample of size 5 huggies pull ups. I used warm, but not hot water to test. In hindsight I should have coloured the water so it showed up easier, I’ll do this next time (yes, I’m planning a similar test – premium vs shop brand).

To ensure the same liquid was added to each nappy I used a shot glass.

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We set a timer for five minutes and then pressed some card against each nappy with equal pressure to check for wetness. This was when we realised that coloured water would have been sensible! However, I think you can see from the first photo who came out on top. We were very surprised we were sure that pampers would be revealed as the outright winner.

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I’m not sure how much you can make out from the photos but I can tell you there was a noticeable difference and it was in Huggies favour.

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In the pampers photo you can see the wetness,mostly in the bottom left hand corner. I picked up both nappies to see how heavy they felt when wet, they were both about equal. On closer inspection I noticed that the pampers keeps the ‘water’ in a very central position wheras the huggies spreads the ‘water’ over a larger space which I think explains why pampers were coming out more wet.

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We repeated the process, adding a couple more shots of water, and testing after ten minutes. The results were even more obvious, huggies were clearly drier!

You can see that the huggies test card was practically dry, I think there was one small spot. Pampers after the extra water and ten minutes were significantly wetter.

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I should say that I was really impressed with the dryness of both nappies though, I was putting my full pressure on to the nappies to get these results, which means that our kids are experiencing even less wetness than this, which is pretty good. It would be interesting to see how a ‘natural’ nappy compares.

As I was clearing up this experiment I did notice one interesting fact which redeemed pampers a little. I noticed a small puddle on the table, at first I thought I had spilled some water but on further inspection I noticed that the huggies nappy was leaking from the side. The nappy had taken on a lot of water by this point, but the pampers version wasn’t leaking at all, so that’s an extra point to consider when choosing Huggies or Pampers

Parent Testing a Habit: Simplify My Life

By Little Mummy, October 2, 2007 12:52 am

I looked into this one a bit more and the suggestions included de-cluttering, simplifying my wardrobe and simplifying my commitments. As I’m moving home soon I’m going to focus on de-cluttering and simplifying our belongings, taking only the essentials and most treasured posessions to the new house.

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I have a three step plan in place to ensure this process is completed by move-in day.

First Sweep: Throw, Return and Give Away

The first sweep of the house will involve all areas starting with the biggest challenges, the attic and various store cupboards. We will quickly throw anything that is clearly garbage, broken items, and dated stuff (which doesn’t have a monetary value) from the loft. I expect to find several boxes of belongings that we have stored for family and friends – these will be returned, and at the same time we’ll have an amnesty on items that we have borrowed, a clothes rail, a blow up bed, and crockery to name just a few items off the top of my head. The final part of the first sweep will involve items that we plan to give away, the best of Erin’s baby clothes and equipment will be donated to a young mum who is grateful for all that we can spare, my father-in-law has dibbed any army related stuff, and my sister-in-law may be interested in a few things as she has just set up home with her partner.

All in all I expect this first sweep to clear a lot of stuff

Sell and Replace

The second phase will involve doing a couple of boot sales with some of the good stuff. The money will go towards the move and replacing some items. At this stage we’ll also decide and make an inventory of what is to be replaced, off the top of my head I know we’ll be replacing most crockery, all towels and some bedding.

Pack

Finally I’ll pack everything that isn’t used on a daily basis. The exception to the rule will be Erin’s room, so as not to unsettle her I will leave this until last and pack everything once she has gone on ‘holiday’ with a family member for a couple of days. The plan is to have her new room completely set up before she returns, I hope this will make the move a little easier for her.

Have you moved house recently? Any Tips?

Photo by flickr user the amanda

31 Kids Activities for October

By Little Mummy, October 1, 2007 11:38 am

Print this page or bookmark for inspiration throughout October.

1st October: World Vegetarian Day

Make a vegetarian dish together.

2nd October: Bark Rubbing

3rd October: Learn some basic sign language

4th October: Go to a crazy golf course or play putting in the garden

5th October: Make and Play Conkers

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6th October: Make a Video

7th October: Play with Musical Instruments

8th October: Celebrate Columbus Day

9th October: Collect leaves and make a leaf collage

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10th October: Autumn Scavenger Hunt (conker, coloured leaf, feather, acorn etc….)

11th October: Make Sailing Boats for the Bath

12th October: Visit a Farmers Market

13th October: Take Autumn Photos and Scrapbook

14th October: Finger Painting with Autumn Colours

15th October: National Poetry Day

Read poems and/or write your own.

16th October: Bake Blueberry Muffins

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17th October: Do an Autumn Themed Spelling Test

18th October: Make Homemade Applesauce

19th October: Go Bowling

20th October: Visit a Museum

21st October: Play Heads ‘n’ Volleys

22nd October: Paint a Canvas

23rd October: Visit some kid-friendly websites – I like the bbc website for children

24th October: Read a book together

25th October: Bake Apple Crumble

26th October: Learn to tell the time with this interactive game

27th October: Set up an ice-cream factory with lots of flavours and toppings, let the kids help themselves

28th October: Go Roller-skating/blading

29th October: Make Your Halloween Costume – here is some inspiration

30th October: Make scary edible faces ready for Halloween

31st October: Happy Halloween

Carve the pumpkin and go trick or treating!

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