Littlemummy News Roundup: New Shoes, Wales & Nice

By Little Mummy, August 29, 2007 10:26 am

Erin received her third pair of new shoes, at £26 they were the most expensive yet, although thankfully I think we are into the upper price range so future pairs should cost the same (or less, if I get them in a sale). I tried to get a link but couldn’t find one, but they are chocolate leather with an aqua green flower on the front, they are called Isobel Lauren (in case you’re interested).

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I’m doing the packing thing at the moment as we prepare to head off to Wales for a long weekend. We’ll be doing lots of visiting and hopefully we’ll get some nice weather to explore the Gower Peninsula with Erin.

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And finally, I have been awarded this ‘nice matters’ award, which, from what I can gather is awarded for being…well…nice. So thanks Alasdair who was kind enough to give it to me.

I would like to pass the award onto Michelle of Scribbit fame, I recently bombarded her (uninvited) via google chat about various blogging related problems I had. She was extremely friendly and helpful, and was nice for the sake of being nice. Thanks Michelle!

1000th Comment

By Little Mummy, August 29, 2007 9:09 am

I just wanted to do a quick post to celebrate my 1000th comment, which was written by 21st Century Mummy on my Pass the Book post. I’ve been blogging at littlemummy for 14 months and it’s nice to have a milestone like this to celebrate, I’m looking forward to comment 2000 now!

10 Ways to Afford to be a Stay at Home Mum (and go back to college)

By Little Mummy, August 27, 2007 11:57 pm

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For the past 20 months I’ve been a stay at home mum, and for the most part we’ve lived off one wage, this situation sets to continue as next year I’d like to go back to college.

Over the summer I’ve looked at our budget and expenditure in depth. I’ve figured out the main ways that we will be able to continue to afford ourselves the luxury of choosing to invest in the future, which will pay off both monetarily and in our longterm happiness.

1. Get What You’re Entitled Too

I’m not talking about sponging off the state here, just making sure you’re receiving all that you should be.

Most people, regardless of earnings, are entitled to something whether it be child benefit or tax credits. Make sure that you claim the tax credits and update them if there is a change. In my experience, even small changes can affect the level of your tax credits.

2. Make Money from a Hobby

Boost your household income by establishing a side income. Childminding is a good option if you’re already at home with your own child. Otherwise consider making money from your hobby. If you paint, sell paintings. If you make soap, set up an ebay store. If you blog, have you tried monetizing your site? It can be as simple as adding a little code. If your site is a page rank four or above try text link ads, I’ve found it to be the most stable income that requires no work other than pasting in the code.

3. Sell The Clutter

Do a sweep of your home and sell anything that you don’t need or don’t use. You can use the money to clear some debt or invest in home entertainment (see number 10).

4. Set a Budget for Everything

I find that having a ‘bills and essentials’ account and a ‘luxury account’ works well for me. I set a budget for food shopping, bills and petrol so that we have a rough guide of what we should be aiming for. I find that using the budgeting method works especially well with food shopping as it’s easy to keep on adding in extra treats, now I get the staples in and the money leftover (up to the agreed budget) is for ‘extras’ and treats.

5. Free Days Out

Spending money on lavish days out to theme parks is fun, but wholly unnecessary if you’re on a budget. This summer we’ve enjoyed going to the park, to the beach, for walks, the library, and to the museum – all free of charge. We’ve also sprinkled in a few low cost activities like soft play (£1.50/$3) and swimming (£7/$14, for three of us). We haven’t had any expensive days out this summer which is down to both Erin’s age and our budget, although we have taken advantage of some family perks! (see number 11!)

6. Savings

Try and build up an emergency fund for a ‘rainy day’. Even if it’s only a few pounds a week it’s nice to have a little extra available when you need it.

7. Save Money on Food

I’ve been using the classic tactics of meal planning, making a list and online ordering for sometime now, so when I looked at our food budget again I had to think of some other way to cut it down to size.

Over the past few months I have been trying cheaper alternatives to our regular buys, we have managed to cut our expenditure by around 10% by sticking with some of the cheaper alternatives. Note: we only kept the ones that were as good as, or better than (yes, there were some cheaper alternatives that were better) the more expensive version. Products that we have transferred to include; tortilla chips, salsa, shower gel, toothpaste, flour tortillas, rice, and laundry tablets. Non transferables included coffee, bread, butter, and fruit, these products presented a false economy which I’ll go into in a post soon.

8. Cut the Bills

Quite a few of our bills have risen steeply recently. Our mortgage has increased by nearly 25% in the last year, our gas and electricity by around 40% and our telephone by about 30%. It became clear that we needed to focus on reducing these if we were to survive on one wage.

I’m not really a big believer in changing suppliers every five minutes, especially if I get good service. I find it a hassle especially for utilities. So we have turned our attentions to trying to reduce our usage instead. We have began using the heating less, we’ve brought a manual clothes dryer to cut down on our tumble dryer use and we are also trying to be more economical in the car. Oh yes, and only call mobile phones in an emergency and keep lengthy calls until after 6pm.

9. DIY

Cut costs by doing it yourself. We recently saved ourselves some money by laying a simple vinyl floor in the bathroom. The total cost was around £45, if we’d had someone in to do it we would probably have been looking at paying into three figures.

10. Buy Entertainment Products for the Home

We recently received a windfall, we decided to spend some of the money equipping ourselves with some home entertainment. We looked upon this as a bit of an investment, we know that there will be some financially tight times ahead (during my year at college) and having entertainment at home means we won’t need to worry about not having any money to go out. Amongst other things we bought a Nintendo Wii which has already provided us with many hours of entertainment.

Bonus – Utilise Family Perks

Every family has perks that you should take advantage of when times are lean. For example we can holiday in a nice part of Wales as much of my family live there. Close members on the other side of my family have acquired a caravan in a picturesque part of Scotland, we’ve already been once and plan many more ‘freebie’ weekends away. And that’s not to mention the plethora of decorators, joiners and handymen that most families have at least a couple of. It’s ok to take advantage of these perks provided they are offered and you try and do something in return.

Any other ideas on how we can spend less?


Photo by flickr user Rogue Soul

Pass the Book: Children’s Spaces

By Little Mummy, August 26, 2007 11:35 pm

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Last week 21st Century Mummy started Pass the Book with Children’s Spaces by Judith Wilson. I really enjoyed the book and it has given me a lot of inspiration, and funnily, not just for children’s spaces but for my bathroom, which I am currently (and when I say currently, I mean sporadically) decorating and for a piece of artwork I’m planning for our livingroom.

The rules of the game, state that I now offer this book up to my readers. The first one to state ‘pass me the book’ in the comments wins. Entry is open to the whole of the world, or at least anywhere in the world that has postal access, is that everywhere now? I don’t know…

Anyway, the rules;

The rules are:
a) You must have a blog that you maintain regularly
b) After reading the book you must put up your own “Pass the Book” post, with a review of the book
c) In the post, you must must tag three blogs: The Originator, The Blogger who sent it to you and an update of who you passed it onto.
d) You must not use the recipient’s address for any other purpose than to forward the book.

I now declare the second round of Pass the Book………..OPEN

Parent Testing a Habit: Meditate Daily

By Little Mummy, August 26, 2007 12:21 pm

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To be honest, when I saw this was the next one on the list, I wasn’t sure whether to do it or not. I’ve never really meditated before and wouldn’t really know what to do, so I decided to simply take some time out to relax, with a view of ‘taking it from there’.

You may have noticed that I have blogged less this week, I stole some blog time to relax and read a book. I spent a few hours over the course of the week laying down quietly in the bedroom just reading, and (ahem) falling asleep. I’m not sure if it was down to this extra ‘time out’, but I have been feeling particularly relaxed and positive even with a constantly niggling absess. I also enjoyed more quality play time with Erin and an increasing sense of ‘being in the moment’ (as opposed to treating every day like a race).

I definitely intend on keeping this type of relaxation up, it seems to be having a positive effect on more than one area of my life, and I think it is time worth sacrificing as I’m definitely getting more done in the remaining time as a result.

Next weeks’ habit: Get Organized – this will be a two week habit as I’m away for a long weekend (yay)

Photo by flickr user frogarythm

Activity #14 Pear & Blackcurrant Jelly

By Little Mummy, August 23, 2007 2:07 pm

Pear & Blackcurrant Jelly

I made these myself with some leftover pear and jelly, however, I think it would make a great cookery activity for a preschooler.

Erin loved them, so I may try some other fruit and flavoured jelly combinations…orange jelly with peach or perhaps strawberry with lime flavoured jelly….

Parent Testing a Habit: Healthy Eating

By Little Mummy, August 22, 2007 1:10 pm

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To say that this weeks habit was a disaster is…well….an understatement. Why do you think I haven’t released any details of my actual food intake (hee hee). I have the minor excuse of suffering a little with the old crohns, which always knocks my regular eating habit, but I can’t lay all the blame there…

I’ve decided that trying to overhaul my whole eating pattern is just too much to ask, after all, I am a busy parent. I have decided to break this habit down into stages, the first step being to overhaul breakfast. From now on breakfast will consist of a variety of the following;

Fresh juice and/or coffee
Melba Toast with Philadelphia or
Granary Toast with butter/marmalade or
Rice Krispies

I hope that by starting with breakfast I can move onto better habits at other meals too, we shall see.

Next weeks’ habit: Meditate Daily

Photo by flickr user awrose

Littlemummy News Roundup

By Little Mummy, August 21, 2007 1:51 am

It’s been a busy few days. Saturday we went to Tummel Valley for the weekend and went to a great park in Aberfeldy, lots of fun and it seemed we were away much longer than a night.

Yesterday was my wedding anniversary, three years and counting (!).

I also got a free ticket to the Edinburgh Tattoo, so I went with my sister in law as Alex was working. We saw the usual pipes and drums along with groups from around the world including bands from Moscow, Boston and a female drill squad from Taipei. It was a really nice evening.

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The Simple Dollar had an interesting post about a homemade summer camp. I think this is a great idea if you can get it organised.

Scribbit has some advice on getting kids to go to bed at 7pm.

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Home of Slightly Cracked Dreams
has awarded me this schmooze award, which is awarded for the following reason;

“recognize those people that were exceptionally adept at creating relationships with other bloggers by making an effort to be part of a conversation, as opposed to a monologue”.

I’m going to pass it onto T-bird to say thanks for all the comments she’s left here over the past few months.

Activity #13 Sticker Pictures

By Little Mummy, August 17, 2007 9:52 am

Sticker Picture We had fun making this very simple sticker picture. As you can see we had fish, shell and boat stickers, so we decided on an oceanic theme. Do you like the pencilled in fisherman? hee hee

Quick Activity – Bubbles

By Little Mummy, August 16, 2007 8:35 am

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Mother at Large asked me the other day if I had written about bubbles yet, and I was surprised to find, after browsing the archives that I haven’t…

Bubbles are a great quick activity for babies through to about eight or nine. Babies are fascinated by the bubbles they’ll stare at them gliding through the air. Toddlers like to pop the bubbles and older kids like to blow bubbles. We were at a wedding recently that provided bubbles for the kids as entertainment. The toddlers through to older kids happily played together for well over half an hour!

If you don’t want to sit blowing the bubbles yourself, I can recommend a bubble machine, which is also great for garden parties.

Photo by flickr user Glenn Loos-Austen

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