Giving the Gift of Time
My good internet buddie Megin wrote a paragraph (the last one) that I wholeheartedly agree with. Here is the link to the full post ‘My Package‘.
It’s sad but true that very few of the gifts one receives as a child are ever remembered. Sure, there are a few. I remember my little computer that I practised my spelling on, a particular doll and a sweet shop toy. So here we are, a lot of us worrying about the size of the piles (christmas prezzie piles!) and what the kids really remember is the days we used to go out in the car for a drive and play the ‘let’s get lost’ game, or enjoying picnic teas on eurovision song contest night.
Money can’t buy these memories.
If you can’t think of what to buy a kid for their birthday or christmas, give them the greatest gift of all. You. Plan a day out swimming, a special picnic, a trip to the zoo, a fun packed sleepover, visit to a farm, anything. It’s not all about money and toys. I read on a blog (I can’t remember which) of a Dad who had given his son twelve lunch vouchers. One for each month of the year. These vouchers entitled the young boy to a lunch out at the local burger bar with his Dad. Just him and his Dad, a time for them to enjoy each others company and chat about cars
with no girls or distractions. I thought that was a great idea.
Megin is right about gifts for the mums and dads too. I have all I need right here.
Having the opportunity to do fun things with them, together, and one at a time is the greatest gift of all.
Perhaps I will take you up on your offer of that weekend mum, I think Erin will have a ball (we’ll do it in the summer!).
Megin says “I love and I hate this time of year for so many reasons” and I have to agree with her. Christmas done in the correct spirit, religious or not can be the highlight of the year. Unfortunately more often than not it is all about money, ridiculous amounts of presents with barely a thoughtful gift in sight. I have been guilty of this too, I am going to try much harder to put the magic back into christmas for my family. As Erin gets older I will remember the voucher idea, making and baking will be as much a part of christmas as the gifts, handmade gifts will be as valued as shop bought gifts and the ethos of Christmas being a time for family will be reinforced at our christmas eve party. Merry Christmas!






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Above is me with my beloved Ernie in Port Aventura and left with our love child in Florida.


